Wow...I had the most interesting conversation today with my friends.I am really happy i have the gift of expressing myself and actually talking to people.
Amen Thank You Jesus.
Basically. we spoke about challenges we teenagers face so its mainly parents,relationships,trust issues and so on.
So you know what i realized? you got to be independent to survive in this GODDAMN drama filled world.You got to learn how to think for yourself.Take responsibility.Also please, as soon as you are 16 okay well...17 you got to fucking behave like an adult no more childish acts.When i say this i am referring to the boys and the girls.Sorry but i am saying everything i got in that head of mine...so you could stop reading this minute if you do not like what you see.
Boys boys boys..gosh i must admit girls can not deal with them and at the same time can not live without them.
What i have observed is...boys tend to act immature just to prove a point.When i say immature you all know what i speak off no need to go into details.Anyways,enough about they being immature.
From my conversation today, i have something to tell everyone in a relationship.The most important aspect of your relationship should be COMMUNICATION.Please do not be fooled that it is all about the physical aspect,PLEASE do not.Understanding each other,being able to hold a conversation with the person you love,being able to do other stuff apart from sexual things will and i am pretty sure help your relationship and make you and the other person comfortable.
Trust if the guy or girl avoids any form of communication and prefers only the sexual side..YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS GETTING FUCKED UP...why? because there is someone else he or she is talking to..and pretty soon the he or she will begin to understand that person which leads to comfort then finally feelings begin to emerge.If you are lucky to have a mature boyfriend or girlfriend he or she will confront you but mostly that does not happen so he or she cheats on you.SIMPLE just like a,b,c.
Girls,if a guy really loves you,he would love talking to you,asking you questions,wanting to know about your day,tease you..all those.But if he does not...please think of who you are with again.
Usually when the guy is courting the girl he wants to talk all the time and once he gets you he feels like he has done enough talk.SHAKING MY HEAD! Thats a no no no.
This does not just go to the guys this implies to the girls too.
I decided to say this because COMMUNICATION is much needed in a relationship TRUST once it is gone the relationship is FUCKED.
